I think Barry should be grateful for everything you provide to please him. If this didn't work out, well now you know. I really thought he might have enjoyed it, I don't think that he should feel violated, from the way it sounds he likes to be humiliated. Just consider it a learning experience. On another note, You have said Barry feels he is under-endowed
C must be obedient, respectful and honest or she will get a firmly spanked bottom. My darling C, I demand you to Blog regularly; keep anonymity; keep your contract during discipline; do your chores as instructed and on time; keep your journal up to date with all your misbehaviours. My worst punishment happened whilst on vacation in West Africa. I have endured painful spankings before and have even had a transformational discipline.
Ethan and I met on a forum for Christian singles interested in the domestic discipline lifestyle. While he had grown up in such a household, I had been fatherless and spoiled all my life. At the time I wasn't sure it was something I wanted for myself but I was curious. There has always been something in me that has been attracted to the concept of submission and to men worth the honor of my submitting to them. I don't know why.
The old debates about which is worse — penises or testicles — strike many as akin to the supposed discussion of number of angels able to fit on a pin. Or the distinction between flea and gnat. All Gynarchic religions teach the evil of male genitalia. Theologians feel a firm conviction that penises are the source of male wickedness. Hence, the universal practice of suppressing erections and denying orgasms.