Being willing and eager to venture south is only half OK, maybe 70 percent of the battle — just doing oral isn't enough sometimes. There are things to know, things to literally never do again, and things you can improve. A vagina isn't a clamshell about to snap down on your tongue, and there is no reason to be scared of going down there. By now, in this time of feminist strife, men should have no excuse for being afraid of or grossed out by oral sex if it's something their partner is into.
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Popular vlogger Arielle Scarcella -- known for her YouTube series " Lesbians Explain ," in which a panel of lesbians take on a variety of topics from " How Two Girls Have Sex " to " Why Straight Girls Love Lesbian Porn " -- has taken on an important undertaking, with fascinating if not entirely scientific results. Her inquiry: Why do straight women prefer penetration, while lesbians overwhelmingly prefer oral sex? Scarcella did a bit of background research in the weeks before she released her new " Straight Girls Explain " video, asking of her straight-identifying female viewers and lesbian viewers whether they prefer oral sex to penetration. She found that while 55 percent of straight women preferred penetration, just 25 percent of lesbian viewers felt the same. So, for her follow up, Scarcella tried to figure out why. According to the "straight girls," there could be any number of reasons for the disparity, but most have to do with social construction. A few common themes emerged in the descriptions: many of the women who have sex with men and prefer penetration felt that oral sex requires a greater level of vulnerability, and that to receive pleasure without giving it in return is uncomfortable.
What do we believe about sex and women in their 60s, 70s and 80s? Do we shudder to think of it, or do we not think about it at all? Whether or not we want to admit it, we have ideas about sex when it comes to women of a certain age, and those ideas can actually prove super harmful to their health and well-being. Here are 4 myths about older women and sex that need to hit the road, immediately.
Personally, I love both giving and receiving oral sex, but I can tell you from experience that the things women think when they climax from oral sex aren't always sexy. In fact, they're mostly hilarious. Personally, when I'm climaxing from oral , my thought process goes something like this: Concentrate or you'll lose it!